How do you value friendship?

How do you value friendship?
What do you want to gain from friendship?
Who are your friends?
Do you dare to say that you have friends?

I'm so surprised with what I've encountered and gone through at this point of time. I guess, I've been too naive and misinterpreted the meaning of friendship in this unscrupulous and unjust world. As a matter of fact, I've so much to write but I can't elaborate in detail, in case I spill too much beans and what I've worked so hard will vanish into thin air, without a trace.

Just a word of caution. Never ever care about those who are complicated or those who complicate themselves, especially the practitioners of 'double-standard' as the means of survival in this world of utter hypocrisy, and yet, proud of that attitude of theirs! Wow, I "salute" them. And, it's always good not to reveal too much. Spill a little, then keep the most of it. That's the beauty of "keeping" secrets. Here's a little summary of heart-to heart exchange in my Twitter.

joycescapade: I know I'm stubborn and people dislike me for being so unfriendly and not sporty. Okay, only true friends will accept me. Today, I learned that there's no need to care about those who don't care about me. I learned that there's no true friendship between work-related individuals. It's all about mutual interests.

mydewji13: welcome to the real world...it kinda sucks

joycescapade: yeah, now I'm in the real sucking world. I shouldn't have cared too much.

geminianeyes: I'm sorry if I'm one of those who made you feel that way.

joycescapade: Nope, not you. Definitely not you. I'm serious. Am in the midst of blogging about it. LOL. Don't worry. It's definitely not u. Sth else happened.

geminianeyes: *huggles* Nice to know that. :)

joycescapade: Now I know whom I should & shouldn't befriend. I believe u r one of those who value the good things in life.

geminianeyes: thank you for the compliment. :)

Let me teach you people to how to understand Gemini girls because THEY'RE MISUNDERSTOOD MOST OF THE TIME.

Both myself and geminianeyes are Geminis. Ponder upon these general principles.

1. She'll not sit or stand still for long, able to do many things at the same time and do them fast. You've to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many different characters.

2. She's a dreamer and eager to learn new things all the time. Even if she likes you and wonder about your wit, she'll also see and inspect your bad sides at the same time, this is in her nature.

3. She's able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting you know at all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird, her conversation will not bore you. She's able to talk anything with you. She can make you feel as if you're the luckiest man alive. She can make you feel as if she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she can stand alone firmly and comfortably.

4. She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the same energy that you've. She's quick-witted and learn new things very fast. She can give good advices. She expects a lot and nearly too much.

5. If she wants to tell you any bad comment, she won't say it straight away, but she'll talk to you about many other things and accidentally come to that subject without offending you. Normally, she'll not lie.

6. She works hard and takes long rest only once in a while. She's never contented with her current work, money, or reputation, she will drive to have more. Don't ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she'll not have an answer. Once you get to know her, she'll be a supportive person and will always be by your side.